Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Fifty Shades of G.R.E.Y

I won't need to go into the story, as I guess either you have read the book or get hints from the recent most talk-about news on the casts for the movie adaptation which will be released in February 2015. Else, go to wikipedia for details.


Here are some extracts from the book that may make you clench your hands or legs :

BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Sadism and Masochism) From Wikipedia
BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics. Unlike the usual "power neutral" relationships and play styles commonly followed by couples, activities and relationships within a BDSM context are often characterized by the participants' taking on complementary, but unequal roles; thus, the idea of informed consent of both the partners becomes essential. Participants who exert sexual control over their partners are known as Dominants or tops while participants who take the passive, receiving, or obedient role are known as submissives or bottoms. Individuals are also sometimes abbreviated when referred to in writing, so a Dominant person may be referred to as a Dom for a man, and a Domme for a woman. Dom/Dommes are always referred to in Upper case when written about, subs in lower. Individuals who alternate between top/Dominant and bottom/submissive roles – whether from relationship to relationship or within a given relationship – are known as switches, though the term is occasionally seen as derogatory and is rejected by many who might simplistically fit the definition. Precise definition of roles and self-identification is a common subject of debate, reflection, and discussion within the community.

Hard Limits
No acts involving fire play.
No acts involving urination or defecation and the products thereof.
No acts involving needles, knives, cutting, piercing, or blood.
No acts involving gynecological medical instruments.
No acts involving children or animals.
No acts that will leave any permanent marks on the skin.
No acts involving breath control.
No activity that involves the direct contact of electric current, fire, or flames to the body.


Soft Limits
Does the Submissive consent to :
- Masturbation
- Cunnilingus
- Fellatio
- Swallowing Semen
- Vaginal intercourse
- Vaginal fisting
- Anal intercourse
- Anal fisting

Does the Submissive consent to the use of :
- Vibrators
- Butt plugs
- Dildos
- Other vaginal/anal toys

Does the Submissive consent to :
- Bondage with rope
- Bondage with leather cuffs
- Bondage with handcuffs/shackles/manacles
- Bondage with tape
- Bondage with other

Ooh-La-La. There are more.  Go grab the book.

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